Lie Detector Catch a Cheating Spouse

To Catch a Liars Watch the Body

2009-10-22T22:48:00.000-07:00

Robert Phipps shows you the clues to look for when trying to detect a lie through a persons body language.

How to Catch a Liar

2009-10-22T22:30:00.000-07:00

Catch a liar by paying close attention to a person's stories, asking questions to see if there are discrepancies in a story and watching the person's facial expressions. Notice if a person is telling too many details about something to identify whether they are lying with advice from a professional life coach and relationship specialist in this free video on relationships.

Expert: Donna Barnes
Contact: www.NYDatingCoach.com
Bio: Donna Barnes is a New York University-certified life and relationship coach for NYDatingCoach.com.
Filmmaker: Paul Muller

Drawings Used to Detect Lying

2009-10-22T22:19:00.000-07:00

Police may soon be asking suspects to draw a picture during interrogations to determine whether they are lying.

Forensic psychologists at the University of Portsmouth in Great Britain have found that lying is more obvious in a drawing than in a spoken description, The Telegraph reports .
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Some more traditional lie-detecting techniques include using brain imaging, brain waves, eye tracking, facial analysis, gesture analysis, thermal imaging, and voice stress analysis.

Experts say that men and women lie about the same amount , but there are tell-tale signs to catch a liar.

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How to catch a Liar

What are the ‘red flags’ in a relationship a professional looks for?

2009-09-25T22:10:00.000-07:00

By: Sandra L. Brown, M.A.
Author of: How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved

I am often asked what my ‘red flags’ are as a therapist when I am counseling a couple and I sense he might be dangerous. There certainly ARE specific things that I have trained my ear to listen for because they are often indicators of more serious problems often attached to dangerous behavior.

These include:

* Pacing of the relationship. If its 24/7 it’s not that he’s “just that into you.” Pathological men have agendas about getting the relationship to appear ‘intense’ and ‘deep’ quickly. They want to usher you into the middle of the relationship before you figure out his agenda or respond to your own red flags. Predators have told me in group that their move is to ‘sweep them off their feet’ by overwhelming them with intensity of emotion, time, and gifts. Women who get into intense relationships in which quickly they are seeing each other constantly, not having an outside life, and have the sensation of being ‘breathless’ from the pace of the relationship are often with a dangerous man. Many different types of dangerous men often try to move in quickly or marry quickly. Both of which should be a red flag to a woman. Women should always be in charge of the pace of the relationship which should be SLOW. Women should also change the pace of the relationship and see how he responds. Normal men accept that you ask for more time to yourself, dangerous men do not. They guilt and shame you into keeping the pace at THEIR rate, not yours.

* Serial Relationships. Women often ignore a man’s history of failed relationships. Guys with histories of multiple failed relationships have difficulty being alone so they rapidly seek other relationships without reflection on the failed one. This lack of insight in the failed relationship increases his pacing so that women are hurried into a relationship before figuring ‘why’ he has so many failed relationships. One clue I always listen for is his relational history—how many relationships, why they ended, what he has to say about his own responsibility in them ending, and what he says about the woman now. Men who take no responsibility for their actions often have mental health issues as do men who never say anything good about any of the women they have been with.

How to detect a dangerous man!

It is imperative for you and your families safety to identify and properly eliminate people who are capable of lying and cheating.

Win When Mate Cheats

2009-09-25T21:52:00.000-07:00

How you win when your mate cheats -- a different look at infidelity.

Is love and monogamy a biological reality?

2009-09-25T21:39:00.000-07:00

Is love and monogamy a biological reality?

What is love? Sounds so corny to ask or even to ponder. But we must do as human do and, we do love. What is monogamy? Simple answer the exclusive union of two human beings. Now keep in mind we are the only species on earth that subscribes to this thought, and understandably so.
When it comes to both questions I have an observation and a question of my own.
My Question is?
Is it possible for a man to cheat on his wife , lie to her to cover up his affair, yet still love her enough to die or kill for, can both statements be true. Conversely is it also possible that a man can be faithful for all his relationship, yet distant, cold and has beat his wife, but has never cheated?

I realize these are hypothetical extreme examples and that imo if a man beats his wife he would also cheat on her. But the first questions is legitimate and if fact if this situation is a reality then I am open to other questions about monogamy, especially in men.